Needs are important

All your horse needs is you. That reads as a pretty simple and straight forward statement doesn't it? Re-read it again and think about it. Does it stir anything meaningful inside you or does it seem rather innocuous? Your horse does have needs, many different kinds of needs. Some are very basic and others are as complicated as a rocket launch into outer space. But before you say "Houston we have a problem" lets look deeper into what your horses needs actually are.

At the top of the list it might start with comfort, security; proper feed; quality hay; fresh water; green grass; strong fencing; turn out; exercise; daily grooming and companionship just to name a few. This is starting to get extensive and we've just started, there is also, veterinary services and procedures; training or riding lessons; blankets in the winter; bathing and shoeing; Are you beginning to get the picture? So let's look at the opening sentence again. That above list of items was getting longer, and when you really examine it, today's horses are relying on you to help provide all of it.

A wild horse in a herd moves constantly and does his best to survive on his own, but today our horses wait for us to feed them, clean their stalls and give them lots of care and attention. And it's not always easy to do with our own list of responsibilities to family, jobs and community. That's why your horse needs you. While giving your equine friend the best environment your hard earned dollars can afford, without your attention to detail it can often be left up to chance as to whether he's actually getting what you're paying for. Many of us rely either fulltime or periodically on barn help for management of our horses, and the percentage of the time the people trusted to do those jobs do a good, professional service to help us out, but what about the times that is not the case? The stress and strain, frustration and anger leave many horse owners worried and frazzled. No matter what the scenario, ultimately you need to be involved in your horses' welfare.

Off-site care and training might be the only alternative you have, but to have peace of mind and quality sleep at night, a good rapport with barn staff can help you, your horse and the atmosphere of the stables. Especially, if you can recognize the difference in a good job, and a shaddy one. It is what will make a big difference in your horses' mood, attitude and overall performance when it comes time to tack up and hit the trail. If your current income or budget doesn't allow for five star accommodations, your time and money will still be invested in his wellness.

Horses will always need humans to keep them safe and mentally fit. Things like a good schedule and regular feeding and turnout, make an effective impact on his life. If you can only squeeze in a short visit it's better than putting it off until tomorrow. Any type of hands on touch, rub, or grooming to me, is as good as a ride. Why, because your keeping your connection and commitment to a very large animal that needs you more than you realize. Maybe cleaning his stall or leading him on a walk is all you can do during the week, he is still going to gain benefits from it and so will you.

Believe in your horse and the positive energy between the two of you. Leave the stress in your glove box. It will be waiting on you when you get back. The time you offer is quality whether you know it or not. They can pick up on your moods and so can everyone else around you, so be a source of good vibes when you enter his domain. Your horse doesn't always need to be lunged, over lunging can sometimes create imbalance and even soreness. A good equine session can be therapeutic instead of strickly performance based. Try stretching sore muscles or invent your own massage methods. It's all about putting your horse in a good state of mind and trust me, you'll see and feel the change when you do get to ride. Think of it as an equine spa day, if that helps and bring in a massage therapist, chiropractor or accupuncturist. Notice the great things in your horse and not just the blemishes, scrapes or quirks in his attitude. Maintain his saddle, blanket or pad, bridle and bit. A horse journal, with a list of goals and a progress sheet help you stay tuned into his world. That's being a true horseman. Believe in your new program and encourage others to support you too.

 Think of yourself as tech support and enjoy the difference in guilt free horsemanship vs. the strain of feeling lousy for not being there. This will be a transformation for both of you. Give it time and be patient. I really believe in the long run you'll both be happier and healthier on and off the trail, because when the day is done all he seeks is you. Be there for him and he will be there for you. Don't forget he needs you.